What is kink affirming therapy?

In this post you'll learn what a kink affirming therapist is and the benefits of working with someone who is kink affirming. Continue reading to learn more about it. Stay Golden Therapy Provided services in the KCMO metro.

What is a Kink affirming therapist?

A kink affirming therapist is familiar with the terminology and dynamics of kink in a relationship. Even if you won’t be talking about these element in therapy it can be important to find a therapist familiar with kink. They won't pathologize you for your interest or relationship style. They will work with you to navigate what it is that is bringing you into therapy.

Is this the same as sex work?

A sex therapist is NOT a sex worker. There are strict ethical codes and boundaries we must adhere to while practicing. We follow ethical code from our professional and state licensing board. Click here for a great article to learn more about that means.

What are things you can work on in therapy?

Some of the things a kink affirming therapist can help individuals with is processing and healing from the negative sexual messages they have received. A kink affirming therapist can help you navigate the terms and boundaries within your sexual experiences. Another thing therapy can help with is your understanding of the consensual dynamics of kink allowing you to recognize the difference between the kink dynamics and abuse. A kink affirming therapist can help you assess the health of relationships with yourself and others. These are just a few things a kink affirming therapist can help you with processing. There are many more topics, so make sure to talk with the therapist to see if they can help.

How do I know if a therapist is kink affirming?

When looking for a therapist, it can be helpful to ask if they are kink affirming before committing to therapy. This doesn't mean share every intimate detail about your kink with a potential new therapist. By asking, the therapist can refer you out if that’s not something they aren't competent in working with.

Additionally look and see if they list additional training or certifications. If its not listed on their website, that can be a great questions to ask them.

Views at Stay Golden Therapy of kink affirming

At Stay Golden Therapy we follow the guidance of AASECT's Vision of Sexual Health

We understand the importance of healthy fun sexual experiences in an adult’s life and can support you in creating environment to express you authentic self.

We provide a space that respects consent and body autonomy. We view the use of pornography and sex work as legitimate and valid in the sexual experience for adults. We view masturbation as a natural healthy sexual behavior. We also support those who are asexual and understand that sexual activity isn’t necessary for someone to be a healthy person.

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